
At first, I thought…where did those questions even come from? Then I realized—they simply don’t know how immigration really works. Honestly, I don’t even know how the system works in Japan. But here in America, let me paint the picture.
For some visas, renewal means leaving the U.S. to get a stamp in your passport. And even if your visa is approved, re-entry is never guaranteed.
At the border, your fate depends on the officer in front of you. They hold all the power. If they don’t like you—or just feel like making things difficult—they can demand almost anything. Imagine being told to produce your college transcripts from twenty years ago, even though they have nothing to do with your visa. Do you tell the officer that? No. As immigrants, we know better than to argue. Instead, you spend hundreds—sometimes thousands—of dollars to fly across the country, pay for transportation and lodging, and retrieve documents… all while keeping a straight face. Fail, and they can deny your entry.
And if that happens? You may be barred from re-entering the U.S. for years—sometimes up to ten. It’s Russian roulette with your future. Except the gun is theirs, the bullets are invisible, and somehow you’re still the one who gets shot. Your life here—your job, your home, your community—stops instantly. If you have kids, pets, or elderly parents depending on you, their lives stop, too. Decades of paying into Social Security? Gone.
This is the reality immigrants live with. It’s not about being “illegal” or “brave.” It’s about survival in a system that can pull the rug out from under you in a single moment.
A visa renewal can mean you never step foot in America again—regardless of your legal status, your love for this country, or how “legit” you’ve tried to keep everything. Right now, renewing a visa requires not just a Plan B, but Plans C and D… just in case. Otherwise, your job and stability can vanish overnight. And losing work isn’t just about a paycheck. It ripples outward, affecting everyone connected to you.
Crossing once doesn’t guarantee the next. Every renewal is a fresh gamble with a different officer, and even following every rule inside the U.S. isn’t protection—visas are being revoked right now, without warning, instantly turning people “illegal.”
Renewing a visa today means quietly packing your life each time, as if you might never return. The more you travel, the greater the risk. Leaving for a funeral or to see a sick family member doesn’t grant an exception.
Every trip, every renewal, every decision carries weight. How many times could you live like this before the uncertainty becomes too much?
Dear Miyo;
Sunday was the first time I heard about his departure. I was shocked and disappointed, and dismayed that I didn’t even get the chance to say goodbye. I really don’t know what to say. I’m glad the speech you gave made folks more aware of what it’s like to deal with the immigration authorities. These are bad times and one can only hope things will swing back the other way. Please convey my best wishes to him and let us know if there is anything we ever do to help if you need it. Your friend, Jiro
Jiro, thank you for your friendship and thoughtfulness!
Stories like this make me sad and angry. But you didn’t tell the whole story – I assume his visa was up for renewal, and his plan was to leave, re-apply, and come back. How long will that take? What do you think his chances are?
Thank you for your comment, Gary. Yes, his visa was up for renewal. At this point, I’m not sure if he’ll be coming back, as things keep changing. On paper, his chances look decent, but logic doesn’t always apply these days.
Sorry to hear this story, I hope it works out for the two of you.
I can’t wait for this regime to end.
Thank you for your kind thoughts, Dave!